From Rolled Sleeves to Remote Screens: Done Right, Done Together.
- Crystal Stapley
- Jun 7
- 4 min read
Before I ever opened my mouth, the room was already talking.
Not out loud though. It was like striking a match in a room full of dry kindling. The topic of bringing generations together? Long overdue. You could see it in their posture, the sudden stillness, the subtle head nods. Nobody moved. Nobody scrolled. Every age group, silent but screaming for this exact conversation.
You’d think we announced free boots and beer the way the room snapped to attention as I approached the microphone. Boomers stopped side-eyeing Millennials. Gen Z looked up from their phones. Even Gen X uncrossed their arms for once. The topic hit, generational tension, and suddenly, everyone was on the edge of their seat like we were finally saying the quiet part out loud.
There were over 200 people in that room. Hard hats. Heavy boots. Seasoned operators. Brand-new hires. Crew leaders. Foremen. We’re not just talking about backhoes and bulldozers; we’re talking about the humans in the seat. The ones who build industries, the ones refining it, and the ones who will take it further than we ever imagined.
But here’s the challenge: we’re running a multi-generational workforce where values, tools, and communication styles don’t always line up.
First things first, I split the room in two.
Ol’ timers on one side, new agers on the other.
Gen X lingered somewhere in the middle, arms crossed, smirking like they’d seen this rodeo before. The Boomers in the back looked skeptical, probably wondering if we were about to sing Kumbaya or start another meeting that didn’t need to be a meeting.
What I had in front of me was the full spectrum of the workforce, four generations, all with wildly different views on what work should look like.
Boomers who grew up with “don’t complain, just hustle.” They find pride in showing up early, staying late, and not needing praise to know they did it right.
Gen Xers, the original latchkey kids, independent, practical, and quietly reliable. They often don’t say much until something really needs saying.
Millennials, the meaning-seekers. They want balance, clarity, and purpose, not just a paycheck.
Gen Z, digital natives, not afraid to ask questions or challenge outdated logic. They’re not lazy, they’re wired different, and they’re watching how leadership shows up, not just what it says.
You could feel the quiet judgment in the room. Everyone sizing each other up.
But instead of diving into training, I threw out questions that cut through all that:
What makes you feel like you had a good day at work?
What makes a job feel worth it?
What tells you, when you clock out, that it was a day well spent?
And slowly, something started to happen.
The old compactor operator said, “When the work is done, trash is covered, and the boss don’t have to say a word, I know I did my part.”
A Gen Z crew member chimed in: “When I’m not second-guessing if I belong here. When someone actually says, ‘good job’ and means it.”
Another said, “When I didn’t just do tasks, I moved something forward.”
Different language. Same meaning.
Everyone in that room was chasing the same thing: Done.
Not just finished but done right.
Done proud.
Done safe.
Done together.
That’s what we’re all after. Not likes. Not titles. Not drama. Just done.
It doesn’t matter how you get there, whether you knock it out with old-school hustle or new-school tech. Whether you like silence or Spotify. Whether you need a fist bump or just that look from across the site that says, you crushed it today.
Hustle looks different now.
We confuse quiet compliance with hustle. But hustle isn’t just about pushing through, it’s about adapting when things change. It’s showing up when it’s easier not to. It’s choosing progress over comfort.
Sometimes hustle looks like staying silent. Other times it’s speaking up.
Sometimes it’s the veteran who never cuts corners.
Other times it’s the new kid who’s not afraid to ask, “Why do we still do it like this?”
Both matters.
Both are needed.
We don't need the same methods; we need the same mission.
You need the guy who can run a dozer blindfolded, by feel alone.
You also need the tech-savvy operator who can fly a drone, pull emissions data, and analyze the cell from the sky.
You need someone who can tell stories of how it used to be.
And someone else who’s brave enough to imagine what it could become.
We don’t grow by choosing sides. We grow when the rolled sleeves sit down with the remote screens and start learning from each other.
Because when we stop focusing on the method and start celebrating the meaning, that’s when things change.
So, what do we do?
We stop writing each other off. If you’ve been in this industry a long time, show the new ones what it means to take pride in the small things. Show them what showing up really looks like.
And if you’re the new one, don’t assume the old ways are wrong just because they’re different. Ask. Listen. Learn.
And if you’re leading? Stop trying to get everyone to row the same way. Just make sure they’re rowing in the same direction. Because the goal was never perfect. The goal is progress. The goal is done.
Make room for change that still respects what built us. Because if there’s one thing I know, it’s this: We may not all walk the same path, but when we get it done, right, proud, and together, we all earn the same finish.
And that’s the only kind of “done” I’m interested in.
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